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Monday, July 07, 2014

Excess Or Deficiency Being The Only Child



Although you do not have to play and vent, but we still have parents who love and attention to us. So, do not be moody once and find it to be an only child forever is not good, because in addition to the minus, so the child too much plusnya, too!

Plus:
 
The Focused Attention Parents
Because it does not have a brother, so parents will be more focused attention to us alone. It will make us feel more secure and get affection. Typically, a single child also has a strong relationship with parents.

Become More Independent
Single child more vulnerable themselves. Starting from his own duties, maintaining control behavior to yourself to keep up appearances. Because in doing something had to struggle and fight for a self-confident and over all actions performed.

Unmet Needs
Yup, in general, a single child may also be easily met their material needs. Because love is only for our parents, so anything that needed to be met.

minus:
 
Slow Decision Making
Because there is no friend or relative who can be invited to exchange ideas, child tend to be slow in making decisions and irresolute. But we can change that by socializing in the neighborhood.

feeling lonely
Nothing could be friends house and invited a friend told me jokingly makes us often feel lonely and bored. Because of this, the child was so tend to be quiet. With've got a lot of positive activity, we can throw away the loneliness.

So Protective Parents
Because you want only child always safe, parents will be protective to us. Many parents intervene in the association until when we had a problem. More often diksusi with parents will help us to convince parents that there are certain times we can take care of myself.

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