Excess Or Deficiency Being The Only Child

Although you do not have to play and vent, but we still have parents who love and attention to us. So, do not be moody once and find it to be an only child forever is not good, because in addition to the minus, so the child too much plusnya, too!

Plus:
 

The Focused Attention Parents
Because it does not have a brother, so parents will be more focused attention to us alone. It will make us feel more secure and get affection. Typically, a single child also has a strong relationship with parents.

Become More Independent
Single child more vulnerable themselves. Starting from his own duties, maintaining control behavior to yourself to keep up appearances. Because in doing something had to struggle and fight for a self-confident and over all actions performed.

Unmet Needs
Yup, in general, a single child may also be easily met their material needs. Because love is only for our parents, so anything that needed to be met.

minus:
 

Slow Decision Making
Because there is no friend or relative who can be invited to exchange ideas, child tend to be slow in making decisions and irresolute. But we can change that by socializing in the neighborhood.

feeling lonely
Nothing could be friends house and invited a friend told me jokingly makes us often feel lonely and bored. Because of this, the child was so tend to be quiet. With've got a lot of positive activity, we can throw away the loneliness.

So Protective Parents
Because you want only child always safe, parents will be protective to us. Many parents intervene in the association until when we had a problem. More often diksusi with parents will help us to convince parents that there are certain times we can take care of myself.

Ex-Couples Can Be Friends

Who says it is impossible to meet with the former? The proof, so many ex-couples can be friends, though it was broken. Like, relationship Miley Cyrus and Nick Jonas, who despite ups and downs tinged post-break up, but eventually they could be good friends. In fact, Miley claimed to be friends with the former it was fun, really.

Well, we can also, really like Miley. Because, there are three things fun when we meet with the former, namely:

Already know each other
Because it never had the same relationship former palace, we came to know the nature and character of each. So, talk became more disconnected and we came to know how the best way to treat the former.

Supporting the Faithful
During courtship yesterday, he was the one where we share the dreams and ideals. So, when it finally broke and friends, the former definitely keep the spirit when asked about the support our passion. With the spirit of sharing and support to the former, the relationship was going to be more comfortable and positive.

Expanding can Friendship
If our relationship and ex was good, so do not be surprised when he does not hesitate to introduce us to his personal life now. For example, he can, you know, suddenly vent about his new gebetan or introduce her new boyfriend. Positive, so we can add new friends and familiar surroundings through the former.

How to be Single & Happy

Single and happy. Who the hell, singles who do not want a girl like this? In fact, not easy to get excited when you're alone. Especially if the people around us seemed happy with his girlfriend. Hhh ... Do not give up, there are 3 ways you can do so we can be the single most unhappy creature in the archipelago. Hihihi....

Be pretty inside out
Feel good about ourself is an important step to achieving happiness. The trick, of course with taking care of themselves. Just because singles, so I do not care about appearances. It ya, "disease" that can make us feel inferior. But just not enough physical. We also have to be pretty from the inside. That is, the brain must contain liver must clean temporary. Dispose of envy, resentment or cranky at others. Outside-in was pretty hard? Yup, not easy and can not be instant. Required constant effort.

Share your love
Feeling alone, abandoned and not loved when heart is still single due to narrow. Therefore, we only focus on the boyfriend `as a place devoted affection. In fact, love can be shared with many people. Such as family, friends or those who are less fortunate. Try berasama they take time, or share the happiness of those in need. Then, we'll feel full of love!

Let it flow
When is yes, I have a boyfriend? What if I do not sell-sell? Why is it, failed to continue to find the right person? Questions and anxiety like that will only make the fret. In the end, we are so desperate. Be careful, the aura of despair can be seen from the outside, you know! 'd Better take it easy because the road ahead is still long. There are many who need to think about, such as achievement, exciting hobby, to have fun with my friends. Not to miss all of that just for the sake of dreaming boys, boys and more boys

Everybody My Friend

As a person who has an open and easy going personality, we have close friends everywhere. We can hang out, having fun together and even vent our friends that a lot of it. Our association is of broad benefit because we are so well known, are often invited to participate in all sorts of activities, rarely bored, and there's always accompany. But, have nothing to lose too many friends, you know. namely:

disadvantages:

• Privacy we can become public consumption, because we like the same vent anyone. Even people who are actually the same can not necessarily be trusted. 

• Rarely have time for "Me Time". Because of the time we've spent together with our friends who loads it.

• Most likely we do not have a friend or friends who are really close because we are used to thinking of all my friends have the same closeness capacity.

Overcome with:

• Choose friends who can be trusted only when going to vent about personal issues. Because not all the friends we know it could keep a secret. 

• Set a time as possible so that we do not interfere with play activities or harm. Because that must be pleased not only his friends, but also a girlfriend, family and ourselves.

• No amount of friends that we have, there's something really special. Well, keep this relationship with a close friend that she does not feel neglected when we are busy socializing with others.

Four Benefits Broken Heart

There's no one who wanted a broken heart. But sometimes, it can not be avoided. Disappointed and sad, that's for sure. But underneath, there are lessons to be learned. namely:

•  Stronger. What has been experienced will make us a stronger girl. Maybe even before we realize that we are not as tough it was.

•  Have feelings. Broken heart Proves that we have heart. Yup, even pain, but at least we also never felt that feeling inside. It will make us learn to appreciate the feelings they have

• More sensitive. In a way, this is a useful thing. Than it used to (before feeling gutted), surely we will increase sensitivity. Simple example it while listening to a song or hear curhatan friend. With ever suffered a broken heart, we will be more sensitive and sensitive. Hence, often say that many great works produced brokenhearted. 

• Opportunity to meet the right person. The point is, there's nothing to be sorry if our relationship did not work. If it does not fit, why enforced. It also means we are another step closer to finding the right person. Woohoo!